They say around seven years in a long term relationship is where the unhappiness or discontentment settles in.
Where the parties look outside their situation to fill a void. To add some excitement to everything.
The same can be said for a lot in life. We can all to often find ourselves stuck in routines. Creature of habits. Creating our own unhappiness.
And instead of creating a better situation and communicating what's causing the contention. We seek new horizons.
Though this has been disproved and that there really is no magic number of how many years, it's a phrase that really no longer means exactly 7 years or is exclusive to relationships.
I have been with the company I work with for 7 years and though I have struggled in the past. I have really hit a wall recently. It's getting harder to justify why I'm staying.
And no good reason to stay... is a good enough reason to go.
xoxo
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